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I start consuming hundreds of profiles on boring journeys or in queues for a slow barista.
Oh, the immediate gratification of having eight suitors when I woke up this morning!
It has slimmed down the emotional, cognitive and financial investment required by the virtual dating process to one simple question: “Do I want to do you?
” What more modern way to make that most basic binary decision of whether you want to shag someone than a game of real-world "Hot or Not"?
His main profile pic includes three of his mates (those are almost worse than the sneaky selfies because you don't know if you've pulled an alpha male or his loser friend) but we have a mutual acquaintance who assures me he's a "safe bloke". He's exactly the sort of 20-something that Tinder or Ok Cupid would welcome: hip, active on social media, possibly polygamous (a cheat), but authentic and upfront about it.
I’m honest about being a writer but I don't rein in my flirting.
As a trailblazer of casual sex and being skint, I am allegedly the prime example of the demographic that is turning to the Tinder i Phone app.
He's cute so I take the ethnographic approach as he describes the back-and-forth of flirting on Tinder as “tedious intellectual foreplay." He tells me he’s met up with several Tinderers with the sole aim of having sex almost immediately – a game plan that has seen him ditched more times than it’s worked.
“I'm not on Tinder for a relationship but I enjoy going on dates and having casual sex.
Back in London it's more like "18 shared interests! “Richard” gives me the impression he has Tinder-banged so many women in his town that one in 10 children born in the next generation will be biologically his.
Friday Been chatting to someone cute for three days now.
Saturday We ended up in the sort of Soho tequila bar where dinner dates come to die.